NewStats: 3,265,548 , 8,187,170 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 05:20 PM 313u8

Samantha125:
Swear an oath just to get dragged for being ignorant instead of them educating me? No ways.

Anyways, the oath has been removed... I've been there a few times before...

Seriously?

That's a welcome development

At least the forum no longer plays bias

"'Jamira, you're a strong, independent woman. You don’t need a man to take care of your bills. Here’s $50,'" she recalled.

Feeling disappointed and hurt, Jamira ended the relationship. His final words, she claimed, were:
"'I’ve been waiting to hear that for a long time. Please leave the wig on the table before you go.'"

This made me laugh so hard although its a year old news

ufotunang:
. and the national assembly is quiet about this.. and they have senators, house of reps from benue state representing this people but they are also quiet..but in 2027 election now they will go to benue state and start promising them good governance, development, security and protection of lives and properties

It's a pity

As usual. Which see finish wan like this again ?
These people in power are not just heartless they are "animals in human skin" according to the late "Abami Eda" Fela Anikulapo Kuti

I won't be surprised if they are actually benefitting heavily from all these insecurity issues

Samantha125:
All African royal families just look ordinary to me and the last three pictures were of her when she was between 10 and 13, she was just a child and not yet a queen...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️... You can't expect a child to carry all those responsiblities.

But anyways, your opinion is your opinion and you're entitled to it.

Not true over here

There's a way u will just see and know there's something extra

That aura, charisma that oozes power and authority that can't be challenged

There's a thread of a little Nigerian princess who was involved in a horse show or something during a certain festival or so.

One look at her says a lot and she's still a kid.. so

Samantha125:
Much better...🤒🤒🤒... Next time when I wanna ask something in relation to Islam again, I'm gonna come to you.

Lol



U will need to take it to the Islamic section and

swear an oath then ask all u want to

SusanOpeyemi:
My youngest sister. I was there live and direct. Yoruba to the world.

Abi

Tell me something about

Olorunsogo House that an outsider can't know easily

Since u are claiming Kuku

Samantha125:
She or he won't.

Care to explain to me what is Sallah since you ruined my chance of getting a proper explanation from a Muslim?

In Nigeria, Sallah refers to the Muslim festivals of Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, marking the end of Ramadan and the culmination of the Hajj pilgrimage, respectively. Eid al-Fitr is also known as Small Sallah, while Eid al-Adha is known as Big Sallah. Both festivals involve special prayers (Salah), feasting, gift-giving, and visiting family and friends

Samantha125:
Now you're confusing me even more, how is she supposed to carry herself?

Like a true Queen

Oh so u don't know there are ways Kings and Queens and other royal family carry themselves
with a certain level of dignity, composure, and authority, reflecting their status and role.

This includes posture, demeanor, and even specific protocols and gestures.

She doesn't have any of those or rather I can't see them around her.

Samantha125:
You're the one trying to stir something that is not there.

Now that guy might choose not to respond to my quote all thanks to you... And why did you have to quote me in the first place when my comment wasn't directed at you? Already you had gotten what you were asking for.

Lol I'm not and I didn't cause anything oo. She will answer u

and besides it's my thread, my government

I quote whomever I feel like

Samantha125:
I don't get it, how is a royalty supposed to look like?

That aura, carriage...

Just the way and manner with which she's supposed to carry herself

I don't see none of that.

Even the way she sits.

Maybe because she's still a child sha

Samantha125:
How am I not calm? And what do you mean "you this girl"?

Stop being so paranoid, it's weird.

Okay I just meant u should not stir up dust

in an otherwise calm situation... And

I'm not being paranoid though

take some chilled water

Brandiebird:
That girl will argue with her shadow in a dark room

Lol

You are very funny

Omor na every time I go dey type 40 characters

This is unbecoming

Nice but...

She doesn't even look like royalty

Just like another commoner.

Probably still being tutored in the ways of or not but something just doesn't show royalty there

Samantha125:
Why is it that whenever I ask a question in relation to Islam, respectfully so, you guys here on nairaland always get offended by it? It's like you expect me to be knowledgeable about it when I honestly know nothing.

Just a few days back, I asked about Sallah and I got dragged for being ignorant... Like I don't get it, how are we supposed to learn about your religion when some of you guys are always ready to attack us whenever we ask genuine questions in relation to Islam?

Is it forbidden to ask about it as a none Muslim?

Shebi the same person is the only one who answered me

and u are quoting her like she's responsible for u not getting answers.

Try dey calm down u this girl

Benue has the most cowardly set of humans breathing. Keep waiting for FG.

Instead of the so called warriors to arrange themselves with one mind, one voice and one spirit

They are busy making noise online and in hidden brukutu spots, eating bush rats and shiii while their mothers, wives and children are being raped and slaughtered mercilessly

Their ancestral heritage, lands, foods and resources are being taken by force.

If u are from Benue thank the new NL structure because words when I for use for make many of una go think about una lives.

In fact I'm deleting all the Benue male friends on my list. I can't have anything in common with cowards.

They know u hate each other and will never think in the direction of uniting because if not I don't see how they will be using ur lives for ludo games.

How una dey feel seeing all these dead bodies and smelling the blood and guts regularly?

Seeing destruction of properties?

No spine? No liver? Till now?

It is written for u that u must fight for what is urs or u die and lose it.
Benue is probably a great state and it's why it's being attacked regularly but it's inhabitants are too weak. No other part of the country is as weak as Benue

All mouth and no action. If ur traditional leaders can't move, remove them cos they are not fit to rule. There is no better time to stand up and fight for ur lives or relax and wait for ur turn to die like Easter chicken

Oweizide Ekpemupolo aka Government hahaahahaaha

I miss my Ijaw bloodline.

If no be say I nor come dey understand High Chief ways again for the past last decade
na to relocate since make I go dey enjoy life on a platter

or even dey anywhere make them position me

Meanwhile una go cry tayaaaa

What an insult to the creator.

He gave us everything to use

For our survival, the skills, brains, strength, resilience, resources, sound mind etc

but yet our leaders chose to be bas-ta-rd-s

What bs prayers are they clamoring for?

to whom? Because I'm 1000% sure God will not even be moved by prayers from spiritually filthy thieves

Even Satan sef reject such stup.

It's like praying to God to help u brush ur teeth when u have hands, toothpaste and brush with water. I wish God fit just slap one of them as example sha

Ancient shaitan...

there's definitely

a catch but as usual

my people will not see the hook but only the juicy meat and

then they will salivate and bite it hard, get stuck, ready to be fried

Saltandmaggi:

Dkid 35 years old man . I understand you. U don marry abi no girl yet?

Salt and maggi

Abeg enter pot

stop disturbing this

sweet Saturday for me

Saltandmaggi:

Maybe I'm just daft cos obviously you don 30 o .

Obviously U are na

There's no two ways about it 😁

Zino still dey form

Haters can go swimming


In a shark infested water

Talkisneeded:



Omo,Nairaland will turn on your creative sense…
I don’t know if this will tone down tribal bigots,but this looks draconian law

It won't.

It's just going to make it worse as they scramble to make up more
Words to troll and dish out

olaposer:
good one from NIMET it has been raining here in lagos since morning with thunder as it is been predicted kundus to them, lol

Ola wetin be kundus? Na rain dey make U reason kuntus so oh... na em U dey type mistakenly

Brandiebird:


Yeah, that sounds legit and very honourable! Some husbands just shout I divorce you and disappear into the night 😂. He comes back if he fears her family (the men in her family), and does it respectfully. Zero documentation needed.

Hmm...

And according to her she initiated the divorce.

Thanks once again for clarifying it.

I have learnt something

Mariangeles:



Yeah. Thirty minutes.

I suppose leave am like that, but I gats type this one . 🙄

Nairaland give everyone work... U must keep typing

Brandiebird:
Bismilaah,
To answer your question, YES. A Woman can and often is divorced by simple word of mouth (verbal contract). There is no need for documentation or court proceedings in Islam.
However, It depends where you live. If you live in a country where you have to your marriage then some Muslims opt to . Islam doesn't require any documents for marriage though.

All that's needed is a woman's wali (1 of 7 men related to her by blood) to give her away, and the man needs minimum of 2 men as witness.

Only a man can divorce (the wife can request a divorce but she can't divorce) and all he has to do is declare that he divorces the woman to her face or to her Walis (see above for meaning).

The man can take his wife back Only 3 times. So he only gets 3 chance to divorce her and make up with her. After the 3rd and final time he divorces her, he is forbidden from marrying her. She becomes haram (forbidden) to him.

If they want to reunite then the woman has to marry someone else (genuinely) and after that marriage dissolves can she return to the previous ex husband.

Muslims don't really like banter around religion and people on nairaland (well you know), so you won't find many Muslims engaging unless it's on the Islam section. Over there you'll get a more academic response with references. I'm just giving you my understanding as an average Muslim (not an academic response).

It's a long talk because you may have different school of thoughts differing on the small details. Please let's remain respectful. I won't respond to any debates because I didn't make the rules. I just accept and obey!

I really appreciate this. The person involved is based in Nigeria. She claims to be divorced from her recently married husband of less than a year and she said all they did was both families and the person who performed the rites according to Islamic laws was present and nothing was documented.

She even went ahead and said they both offered prayers to and for each other on their respective paths to happiness. I just thought she's lying and there should be some sort of document to prove it but I guess I'm wrong.

Mariangeles:


Na that getting "hai" be the culprit. 😀

Just got bailed.


Na short term

No video but screen shots? Madam u are snoozing again

Saltandmaggi:
Muslims dey na but the kids wey dey ur name dey fear them.





Change ur Monika to dmann and repost

Some of U like to disgrace urselves.


Kidd is not the same as kid


But I guess U will never know even if Ur being corrected regularly 😜

Mariangeles:



You purposely dey give all those gaps, abi? 😀

What to do na...

Na so them want am.

How's ur weekend 😊